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College 101: Developing Your Independence

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It’s 11:00 pm on a Tuesday and your history midterm is less than twelve hours away. A text message pops up from your friend down the hall: “Midnight pizza run?” Do you go along or stay back to continue studying? As a college student, this decision is just one of many that will be yours alone to make as an independent.

So many aspects of your life are now your responsibility and you may find all this newfound independence overwhelming. In today’s College 101 feature, we offer practical advice to help you develop your independence and take control of your life.


Manage Your Finances

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Whether you have a part-time job or not, learning to live on a student budget will be essential for life in college and beyond. Developing good spending habits early on makes managing your finances down the road much easier. Sit down with your parents, or whomever is the finance guru in your life, and see what advice they offer.

By setting up a monthly budget, you can start saving up for things like class trips, study abroad and post-graduation expenses. Being responsible for your spending can take some adjustment, but with time and practice you can develop a budget that suits both your lifestyle and your plans for the future.


Monitor Your Learning

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Gone are the days of parent/teacher conferences. Any issues you face with your professors or classes now fall upon your shoulders. Though many instructors provide ongoing feedback on student performance, it’s ultimately up to you to monitor your progress and ask for help if needed. During your first semester, be sure to reach out to professors and ask how you’re doing, especially if you’re unsure of any material covered in class.

Most colleges offer multiple resources, such as tutoring centers, that can assist you with any courses you’re taking. Creating an open dialogue with your professors is the best way to learn your strengths and weaknesses. Their guidance will ensure you’re taking advantage of the appropriate resources for academic success.


Be Happy, Be Healthy

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Though it may feel like you’re burdened with responsibility, you will adjust to your new way of living over time. Allowing yourself time for fun and focusing on your personal health are two great ways to ease the transition. Between campus groups, extracurricular activities and sporting events, there are countless ways to spend your free time. Finding students with similar interests is a great way to relax, make new friends and ease the stress of your newfound independence.

Maintaining good health habits is also super important. Exercise gives you energy and can help relieve stress. Intramural sports, working out in the fitness center or even throwing around a Frisbee are easy ways to stay active. Most universities also have a Health Center on campus for small incidents and routine care. By staying healthy both physically and mentally, you’ll be able to tackle anything college life throws your way.


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ProfilePicAnthony Muccio is a former college admissions professional and education researcher currently advising students one-on-one with his private practice. After years working at large state and small private schools, he decided to spend time focusing on helping unique learners reach their full potential.
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